7th Aug - 13th Aug 2023
😬Oooffftttt…this message feels a little harsh…and it kinda got me in the feels!
🙏🏻The energy around this message feels very serious. Almost, like when your parents sit you down for an intervention…However, I know that Spirit only bring messages that are important and that come from a place of love and compassion, so I will go with it.
💖This message is reminding you that YOU ARE WORTHY. I don’t know why we put ourselves in situations that make us feel like we aren’t worthy, but I do know that relationships can be difficult and we do have the courage and strength to get ourselves out of these tricky situations when it is very necessary.
👩🏻🏫The key message here is: “You teach people how to treat you.”
🌻I want you to look at the boundaries that you set for the people in your life. Are you allowing them to treat you poorly? Is there someone in your life that is treating you poorly and aren’t respecting your boundaries, time and time again? Have you tried to have this conversation with them and they’re completely dismissing your feelings? That mind you…are 100% valid.
🦋What makes you think you aren’t worthy of being treated respectfully by others? If someone is treating your poorly, and you have tried to address this with them and they’re refusing to make changes… it’s now time to consider whether it’s time to let them go and move on with your life without them.
👋🏻There is an emphasis on the fact that whoever this person is in your life….they ARE holding you back. They’re holding you back from being your true self, they’re holding you back from growth, they’re holding you back from creating the loving family you dream for, they’re holding your back from your financial goals, they’re holding you back from finding the peace and calm you are craving in your life. It’s as simple as that.
🥰And I know, that sounds harsh…but some people are at the stage where harsh words are all that are going to get through to you right now.
💭What Spirit are asking you to do is… Visualise your dream life, your dream partner, your dream friendship, whatever situation applies…Then they want you to visualise this life being your reality in 3 - 5 years’ time. In this visualisation…is this person there? Because, if in your dream reality, that person isn’t a part of it…then it’s time to let them go.
🌟Oracle Deck Used: The Spirit Animal Oracle by Colette Baron-Reid
Spirit says…
The message this week is to remind you of your worth. There is someone in your world, or 'circle' right now that is not treating you with kindness and respect. I actually feel that this is a close friend or a partner, someone who has access to you, your energy and your love quite often. This person is overstepping your boundaries, and I feel that this has been happening for a while now and you're either ignoring it, or trying to avoid having a conversation that NEEDS to be had about their behaviour. You need to remember that you teach people how to treat you. If you continue to enable this person's behaviour, they're going to continue to treat you poorly because you are allowing it to happen. You are consistently treating this person with love and respect, even when frankly...it feels like they don't deserve it. Spirit are urging you to address your own self-worth...why is it that you feel this person can treat you this way? Why is it that you feel unworthy of a love and/or friendship that nurtures you as much as you nurture them? You deserve to be loved and cared for just as much as the next person. You are worthy of love. You are worthy of respect and those who don't appreciate you for all that you are, are not needed in your life. If someone is not treating you how you should be treated, then you need to let that person go. I also get the sense that this person is holding you back from all the wonderful things that you could be doing without them.
#54 Skunk Spirit - Know your worth.
Oracle Deck Used: The Spirit Animal Oracle by Colette Baron-Reid